— FOR PARENTS OF KIDS AGES 3-12. THERAPIST CREATED
The Words to Stop the Next Sibling Fight - Before It Becomes a Meltdown.
A therapist-built script kit for the fights you referee every day - the toy grab, the tattling, the backseat brawl. Open to your exact scenario, say the line, watch it work. Built by a licensed clinical social worker and child therapist, not a generic printable bundle.
- ✓ LCSW, 10+ years in child therapy
- ✓ 12 scripts for the exact fights you're having
- ✓ Instant download — use tonight
Stop refereeing. Start teaching the skill.
Same Team is a therapist-built script kit for the sibling fights you're having right now — the toy grab, the tattling, the backseat brawl, the "you always take their side." Instead of a lecture or a generic parenting tip, you get the exact words to say, organized by the fight you're actually in.
Built by Katie Peterson, LCSW, a child therapist with 10+ years of experience, this isn't another feelings-wheel printable. It's 12 scenario-specific sibling rivalry scripts, a 5-minute instant-win card, a six-step process for teaching kids to solve conflict themselves, early-warning signs for when a fight is about to tip into a meltdown, and cut-out pocket cards for the car, the kitchen, or your wallet.
What's inside:
12 full scripts (Instead Of / Try This / Why It Works)
The Right-Now Card
The Six-Step Solve-It-Together framework
2 Make-It-Better repair cards
The Same Team family agreement
4 pocket cards
28 print-ready pages
*Instant PDF download. Use it tonight, for the fight already happening in your house.
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Say this, in order:
- "Freeze — bodies apart. Nobody's in trouble yet."
- "Tell me what you need, not what they did wrong."
- "We're going to solve this together. Same team."
Page 1 of the kit — usable before you've finished reading the rest of it.
Sound Familiar? You didn’t sign up to be a full-time referee.
- "She started it." "No I didn't." — and you weren't even in the room.
- The same toy, every single day, like it's never once been shared before.
- You separate them for the tenth time today, and tomorrow looks exactly the same.
- "You always take their side" — from both of them, somehow, in the same conversation.
- A car ride, a restaurant, grandma's living room — it doesn't matter where. The fighting finds it.
- Some days, "referee" is the only job description that fits.
Sibling conflict is one of the most common — and most normal — parts of raising more than one child. It's not a sign something's wrong with your kids, or with your parenting. What matters is whether you have an actual script for the moment it happens. This kit is built to be exactly that.
Stop refereeing. Start teaching the skill.
Same Team is a therapist-built script kit for the sibling fights you're having right now — the toy grab, the tattling, the backseat brawl, the "you always take their side." Instead of a lecture or a generic parenting tip, you get the exact words to say, organized by the fight you're actually in.
Built by Katie Peterson, LCSW, a child therapist with 10+ years of experience, this isn't another feelings-wheel printable. It's 12 scenario-specific sibling rivalry scripts, a 5-minute instant-win card, a six-step process for teaching kids to solve conflict themselves, early-warning signs for when a fight is about to tip into a meltdown, and cut-out pocket cards for the car, the kitchen, or your wallet.
What's inside:
12 full scripts (Instead Of / Try This / Why It Works)
The Right-Now Card
The Six-Step Solve-It-Together framework
2 Make-It-Better repair cards
The Same Team family agreement
4 pocket cards
28 print-ready pages
*Instant PDF download. Use it tonight, for the fight already happening in your house.
Four parts. One plan you actually use.
NOT ANOTHER PRINTABLE BUNDLE
Not a feeling wheel. Not a chore chart. The exact line for the fight you’re having right now - plus what to do if it tips into a meltdown, and how to teach the skill so they need you a little less next time.
Stop It Now
The Right-Now Card and 12 scenario scripts, so you know what to say before you've even finished walking into the room.
Catch It Early
The warning signs a fight is about to tip into a full meltdown — and what to do before it does.
Solve It Together
A six-step process, with the exact words to guide it, so your kids learn to work it out — not just get separated.
Make It Stick
A family agreement your kids help write, a repair card for after a rupture, and pocket cards for the car and kitchen.
Stop refereeing. Start teaching the skill.
Same Team is a therapist-built script kit for the sibling fights you're having right now — the toy grab, the tattling, the backseat brawl, the "you always take their side." Instead of a lecture or a generic parenting tip, you get the exact words to say, organized by the fight you're actually in.
Built by Katie Peterson, LCSW, a child therapist with 10+ years of experience, this isn't another feelings-wheel printable. It's 12 scenario-specific sibling rivalry scripts, a 5-minute instant-win card, a six-step process for teaching kids to solve conflict themselves, early-warning signs for when a fight is about to tip into a meltdown, and cut-out pocket cards for the car, the kitchen, or your wallet.
What's inside:
12 full scripts (Instead Of / Try This / Why It Works)
The Right-Now Card
The Six-Step Solve-It-Together framework
2 Make-It-Better repair cards
The Same Team family agreement
4 pocket cards
28 print-ready pages
*Instant PDF download. Use it tonight, for the fight already happening in your house.
WHAT’S INSIDE
Six short parts. Nothing that feels like homework.
- Start Here The Right-Now Card, plus why siblings fight (and why that's actually good news)
- The Scripts All 12 scenario scripts — the toy dispute, tattling, "you love them more," and more
- When It Becomes a Meltdown Early warning signs and reset ideas for once a fight tips over
- Sibling Skill-Builders The Six-Step "Solve It Together" framework and the Make-It-Better repair card
- Our Same Team Plan A short family agreement your kids help write themselves
- Pocket Cards Cut-out cards sized for the wallet, the kitchen, or the glovebox
Comes with
- 12 full scripts, in Instead-Of / Try-This / Why-It-Works format
- The Right-Now Card instant win
- The Six-Step Solve-It-Together framework, with parent coaching lines built in
- Two Make-It-Better repair cards, cut-out ready
- Our Same Team family agreement page
- Four pocket cards for wallet, kitchen, or glovebox
28 print-ready pages · works on your phone or printed at home
Stop refereeing. Start teaching the skill.
Same Team is a therapist-built script kit for the sibling fights you're having right now — the toy grab, the tattling, the backseat brawl, the "you always take their side." Instead of a lecture or a generic parenting tip, you get the exact words to say, organized by the fight you're actually in.
Built by Katie Peterson, LCSW, a child therapist with 10+ years of experience, this isn't another feelings-wheel printable. It's 12 scenario-specific sibling rivalry scripts, a 5-minute instant-win card, a six-step process for teaching kids to solve conflict themselves, early-warning signs for when a fight is about to tip into a meltdown, and cut-out pocket cards for the car, the kitchen, or your wallet.
What's inside:
12 full scripts (Instead Of / Try This / Why It Works)
The Right-Now Card
The Six-Step Solve-It-Together framework
2 Make-It-Better repair cards
The Same Team family agreement
4 pocket cards
28 print-ready pages
*Instant PDF download. Use it tonight, for the fight already happening in your house.
Two real scripts from the kit.
HERE’S WHAT IT ACTUALLY SOUNDS LIKE
Not a philosophy. The exact line, for the exact fight.
The Toy or Turn Dispute
Both kids want the same toy or turn, right now, and it's about to become a tug-of-war.
"Just share!" or "Whoever had it first gets it."
"You both want this right now — that's a hard problem. What's one idea to make this fair?"
Why it works — Handing them the problem to solve together teaches sharing. Handing down a verdict just teaches who won today.
"That's Not Fair"
One child is convinced you always favor the other.
"I treat you both exactly the same!"
"Fair doesn't always mean identical — it means everyone gets what they need. Tell me what feels unfair right now."
Why it works — Defending your fairness rarely lands in the moment. Getting curious about what's underneath the complaint usually does.
WHY PARENTS TRUST THIS
Built by a therapist. Not a trend.
Hi! I’m Katie, a child therapist with over ten years of experience working with kids and families. My approach is warm, practical, and built on one belief: Kids need skills, not shame. This kit is built the same way I work in the therapy room - concrete, strengths-based, and immediately usable.
What actually happens after this kit
WHAT CHANGES
Before
- You're the one deciding who's right, every single time
- The same fight repeats the next day, almost word for word
- You end up saying "just stop" — and it never actually stops anything
- A backseat or public meltdown leaves you scrambling for words on the spot
After
- You have the exact line for the fight in front of you, instead of freezing
- Your kids get handed the problem to solve — not a verdict
- You can catch a meltdown before it fully lands, not just clean up after
- Repairs happen with a real structure, not a muttered "sorry"
Stop refereeing. Start teaching the skill.
Same Team is a therapist-built script kit for the sibling fights you're having right now — the toy grab, the tattling, the backseat brawl, the "you always take their side." Instead of a lecture or a generic parenting tip, you get the exact words to say, organized by the fight you're actually in.
Built by Katie Peterson, LCSW, a child therapist with 10+ years of experience, this isn't another feelings-wheel printable. It's 12 scenario-specific sibling rivalry scripts, a 5-minute instant-win card, a six-step process for teaching kids to solve conflict themselves, early-warning signs for when a fight is about to tip into a meltdown, and cut-out pocket cards for the car, the kitchen, or your wallet.
What's inside:
12 full scripts (Instead Of / Try This / Why It Works)
The Right-Now Card
The Six-Step Solve-It-Together framework
2 Make-It-Better repair cards
The Same Team family agreement
4 pocket cards
28 print-ready pages
*Instant PDF download. Use it tonight, for the fight already happening in your house.
Give your family the words for the fight you’re already having.
GET STARTED TODAY
Instant download · yours to keep, for every fight after this one
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Stop refereeing. Start teaching the skill.
Same Team is a therapist-built script kit for the sibling fights you're having right now — the toy grab, the tattling, the backseat brawl, the "you always take their side." Instead of a lecture or a generic parenting tip, you get the exact words to say, organized by the fight you're actually in.
Built by Katie Peterson, LCSW, a child therapist with 10+ years of experience, this isn't another feelings-wheel printable. It's 12 scenario-specific sibling rivalry scripts, a 5-minute instant-win card, a six-step process for teaching kids to solve conflict themselves, early-warning signs for when a fight is about to tip into a meltdown, and cut-out pocket cards for the car, the kitchen, or your wallet.
What's inside:
12 full scripts (Instead Of / Try This / Why It Works)
The Right-Now Card
The Six-Step Solve-It-Together framework
2 Make-It-Better repair cards
The Same Team family agreement
4 pocket cards
28 print-ready pages
*Instant PDF download. Use it tonight, for the fight already happening in your house.
Questions Parents Ask
Before You Get Started
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Built for kids age 3-12 in mind. The scripts flex: for younger kids, lean on the Right-Now Card and the pocket cards; older kids can also use the Six-Step framework and the Make-It-Better card directly.
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The free kit includes one script for sibling fights and one for meltdowns as a preview. This kit is the full, scenario-by-scenario expansion of both. 12 sibling specific scripts plus the complete meltdown and repair toolkit.
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No. The Test Anxiety Course is an educational skill-building resource. Purchasing the course does not establish a therapist-client relationship, and the course isn’t intended to diagnose or treat a mental health condition or replace individualized mental health care.
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Every sibling relationship is different, and some families need more support than a script kit can offer. If you have ongoing concerns about your child’s emotional, behavioral, or relational well-being, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
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This is written for you, the parent- there are no kid worksheets to assign. The one exception is the Same Team family plan, a short agreement page meant to be filled out together during a calm moment.
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All sales are final. No refunds or returns.
Give your family the words for the fight you’re already having.
Get Started Today
Stop refereeing. Start teaching the skill.
Same Team is a therapist-built script kit for the sibling fights you're having right now — the toy grab, the tattling, the backseat brawl, the "you always take their side." Instead of a lecture or a generic parenting tip, you get the exact words to say, organized by the fight you're actually in.
Built by Katie Peterson, LCSW, a child therapist with 10+ years of experience, this isn't another feelings-wheel printable. It's 12 scenario-specific sibling rivalry scripts, a 5-minute instant-win card, a six-step process for teaching kids to solve conflict themselves, early-warning signs for when a fight is about to tip into a meltdown, and cut-out pocket cards for the car, the kitchen, or your wallet.
What's inside:
12 full scripts (Instead Of / Try This / Why It Works)
The Right-Now Card
The Six-Step Solve-It-Together framework
2 Make-It-Better repair cards
The Same Team family agreement
4 pocket cards
28 print-ready pages
*Instant PDF download. Use it tonight, for the fight already happening in your house.