Test Anxiety Course
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Welcome to the Course
Your child meets Katie and hears, right away, that they're not alone — a racing heart or a blank mind before a test is common, and there's a real plan ahead. This short welcome sets the tone for the whole course: warm, direct, and judgment-free.
Your child meets Katie and hears, right away, that they're not alone — a racing heart or a blank mind before a test is common, and there's a real plan ahead. This short welcome sets the tone for the whole course: warm, direct, and judgment-free.
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How This Course Works
A quick walkthrough of how the workbook and videos work together, including the reflection pages built for parent-child conversation and the Progress Map your child colors in as they move through each module. No wrong answers, no pressure to complete every page.
A quick walkthrough of how the workbook and videos work together, including the reflection pages built for parent-child conversation and the Progress Map your child colors in as they move through each module. No wrong answers, no pressure to complete every page.
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Before We Start: Your Check-In
Before diving in, your child takes a short, ungraded check-in — noticing what comes to mind and what happens in their body at the word "test." They'll take the same check-in again at the end of the course, so you can both see exactly what changed.
Before diving in, your child takes a short, ungraded check-in — noticing what comes to mind and what happens in their body at the word "test." They'll take the same check-in again at the end of the course, so you can both see exactly what changed.
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What is Test Anxiety?
The foundation of the whole course: what test anxiety actually is, and why it happens. Your child learns that a racing heart or a blank mind during a test isn't a sign they're unprepared — it's their body's protective response, and it can be worked with instead of fought.
The foundation of the whole course: what test anxiety actually is, and why it happens. Your child learns that a racing heart or a blank mind during a test isn't a sign they're unprepared — it's their body's protective response, and it can be worked with instead of fought.
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You're Not the Only One
A short, powerful reframe: test anxiety affects roughly 16 to 20 percent of kids — four to six kids in an average classroom. This lesson uses that number to take away the isolation so many anxious kids feel before a test.
A short, powerful reframe: test anxiety affects roughly 16 to 20 percent of kids — four to six kids in an average classroom. This lesson uses that number to take away the isolation so many anxious kids feel before a test.
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True or False?
An interactive quiz where your child sorts common test-anxiety myths from facts — including the biggest one, that feeling nervous means you're not smart enough or not prepared. Pairs with the workbook's True or False page.
An interactive quiz where your child sorts common test-anxiety myths from facts — including the biggest one, that feeling nervous means you're not smart enough or not prepared. Pairs with the workbook's True or False page.
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Body, Brain, Behavior
Introduces the framework your child uses for the rest of the course: test anxiety shows up in the Body (racing heart, stomach ache), the Brain (worried thoughts), or Behavior (rushing, freezing, avoiding) — often one more than the others. Before a coping skill can help, a child needs to know where their own anxiety shows up first.
Introduces the framework your child uses for the rest of the course: test anxiety shows up in the Body (racing heart, stomach ache), the Brain (worried thoughts), or Behavior (rushing, freezing, avoiding) — often one more than the others. Before a coping skill can help, a child needs to know where their own anxiety shows up first.
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Reflection
A guided conversation starter for you and your child to talk through their own Body/Brain/Behavior pattern — where a lot of the real progress in this course actually happens.
A guided conversation starter for you and your child to talk through their own Body/Brain/Behavior pattern — where a lot of the real progress in this course actually happens.
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For the Grown-ups
A short lesson just for parents, with a specific script for noticing anxiety showing up as irritability or stomachaches before a test — and how to name it with your child without making it bigger.
A short lesson just for parents, with a specific script for noticing anxiety showing up as irritability or stomachaches before a test — and how to name it with your child without making it bigger.
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Four Ways to Get Ready
Sets up Module 2's core framework: preparing for a test isn't just studying. Your child learns there are four kinds of prep — mental, physical, emotional, and last-minute — and why all four matter more than any one alone.
Sets up Module 2's core framework: preparing for a test isn't just studying. Your child learns there are four kinds of prep — mental, physical, emotional, and last-minute — and why all four matter more than any one alone.
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Mental Prep: Study Habits That Actually Help
Teaches the single biggest study mistake — cramming the night before — and why spacing studying out across several days works so much better. Your child builds their own study calendar, from a modeled example to their own plan.
Teaches the single biggest study mistake — cramming the night before — and why spacing studying out across several days works so much better. Your child builds their own study calendar, from a modeled example to their own plan.
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Physical Prep: Getting My Body Ready
A short, practical lesson on how sleep, food, and comfort affect test performance just as much as knowing the material — and a simple night-before routine your child picks for themselves.
A short, practical lesson on how sleep, food, and comfort affect test performance just as much as knowing the material — and a simple night-before routine your child picks for themselves.
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Emotional Prep: The Two Voices in Your Head
Real cognitive-behavioral skill-building, made concrete: your child learns to notice their inner critic, check whether a worried thought is actually true, and swap it for a truer one. This is one of the more advanced skills in the course — younger children especially benefit from working through it with a parent.
Real cognitive-behavioral skill-building, made concrete: your child learns to notice their inner critic, check whether a worried thought is actually true, and swap it for a truer one. This is one of the more advanced skills in the course — younger children especially benefit from working through it with a parent.
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Last-Minute Prep: Your Ten-Minute Routine
The specific moves for the ten minutes before a test starts, built into a routine your child chooses and practices ahead of time — so test morning isn't the first time they're thinking about it.
The specific moves for the ten minutes before a test starts, built into a routine your child chooses and practices ahead of time — so test morning isn't the first time they're thinking about it.
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Reflection
A conversation about which kind of prep — mental, physical, emotional, or last-minute — already comes naturally to your child, and which one is worth building next.
A conversation about which kind of prep — mental, physical, emotional, or last-minute — already comes naturally to your child, and which one is worth building next.
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For the Grown-ups
Parent scripts for building a study calendar together and responding to a worried thought said out loud — plus a note on which workbook pages benefit from doing them side-by-side with your child rather than solo.
Parent scripts for building a study calendar together and responding to a worried thought said out loud — plus a note on which workbook pages benefit from doing them side-by-side with your child rather than solo.
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I Can Be R·E·L·A·X·E·D.
The course's signature framework: seven test-taking moves your child can recall with a single word — R·E·L·A·X·E·D. No list to memorize, just one word that unpacks into real strategy the moment they're stuck on a question.
The course's signature framework: seven test-taking moves your child can recall with a single word — R·E·L·A·X·E·D. No list to memorize, just one word that unpacks into real strategy the moment they're stuck on a question.
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Building Your Coping Skills Toolbox
Your child builds a personal, three-skill toolbox of coping strategies they can actually use while sitting at a desk mid-test — chosen because they'll actually reach for them, not picked from an overwhelming list.
Your child builds a personal, three-skill toolbox of coping strategies they can actually use while sitting at a desk mid-test — chosen because they'll actually reach for them, not picked from an overwhelming list.
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Calm Your Body Without Anyone Noticing
Breathing and quick body-based techniques your child can use silently, in their seat, in under thirty seconds — without anyone around them ever knowing they're using a coping skill.
Breathing and quick body-based techniques your child can use silently, in their seat, in under thirty seconds — without anyone around them ever knowing they're using a coping skill.
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Grounding: Coming Back to Right Now
Simple sensory grounding techniques that pull an anxious mind out of "what if I fail" and back into the actual test in front of them.
Simple sensory grounding techniques that pull an anxious mind out of "what if I fail" and back into the actual test in front of them.
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Affirmations: What to Say to Yourself
Your child learns to talk back to a worried thought instead of just being talked to by it, including a specific line for the moment their heart starts racing mid-test. They'll also build their own "I Am" poster and a pocket-sized affirmation card to carry with them.
Your child learns to talk back to a worried thought instead of just being talked to by it, including a specific line for the moment their heart starts racing mid-test. They'll also build their own "I Am" poster and a pocket-sized affirmation card to carry with them.
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Reflection
A chance for your child to name which tool in their new toolbox already feels most like them, and which one they want to practice next.
A chance for your child to name which tool in their new toolbox already feels most like them, and which one they want to practice next.
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For the Grown-ups
How to practice affirmations and coping skills with your child while they're calm, so the tools are actually available to them under pressure — plus a test-morning script for validating nerves without arguing with them.
How to practice affirmations and coping skills with your child while they're calm, so the tools are actually available to them under pressure — plus a test-morning script for validating nerves without arguing with them.
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Did You Know the Worry Can Get Louder After?
A lesson most test anxiety courses skip entirely: for a lot of kids, the worry doesn't end when the test does — it can actually get louder. This lesson names that experience directly, so your child knows it's normal and expected, not a sign something's wrong.
A lesson most test anxiety courses skip entirely: for a lot of kids, the worry doesn't end when the test does — it can actually get louder. This lesson names that experience directly, so your child knows it's normal and expected, not a sign something's wrong.
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Your After-the-Test Plan
Five specific things to do once a test is over, and a plan your child builds now, while calm, so they're not figuring it out in the middle of a hard moment.
Five specific things to do once a test is over, and a plan your child builds now, while calm, so they're not figuring it out in the middle of a hard moment.
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Reflection
A conversation about how your child usually feels after a test, and who they can go to when they need to talk it through.
A conversation about how your child usually feels after a test, and who they can go to when they need to talk it through.
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For the Grown-ups
The parent script for the after-test moment — often the hardest one to know what to say to — including how to help your child separate their effort from their grade.
The parent script for the after-test moment — often the hardest one to know what to say to — including how to help your child separate their effort from their grade.
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Congratulations
A moment to pause and name everything your child just built: a plan for before a test, a toolbox for during one, and a plan for after — before moving into measuring what's changed.
A moment to pause and name everything your child just built: a plan for before a test, a toolbox for during one, and a plan for after — before moving into measuring what's changed.
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Where Am I Now?
Your child retakes the same check-in from the very start of the course, so you can both see, concretely, what's actually different now.
Your child retakes the same check-in from the very start of the course, so you can both see, concretely, what's actually different now.
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Reflection & Journal
A closing conversation about what changed and what stuck, plus eight journal prompts built for your child to return to before future tests — not just a one-time wrap-up.
A closing conversation about what changed and what stuck, plus eight journal prompts built for your child to return to before future tests — not just a one-time wrap-up.
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For the Grown-Ups
How to help the skills stick after the course ends, including which pages are worth keeping visible, and a note on when ongoing anxiety might be worth a conversation with a professional.
How to help the skills stick after the course ends, including which pages are worth keeping visible, and a note on when ongoing anxiety might be worth a conversation with a professional.
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Thank You!
A warm sendoff, a reminder that the course is available anytime for a refresher, and one last stop — your child's certificate of completion, waiting for them on the final page.
A warm sendoff, a reminder that the course is available anytime for a refresher, and one last stop — your child's certificate of completion, waiting for them on the final page.
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I Want to Hear From You!
Share your journey with me—what activities did your child enjoy the most? How did practicing friendship skills together help strengthen your connections? Your feedback is important, and hearing about your progress will not only help improve future courses but also inspire other families on their own journey. Whether it’s a small win or a big breakthrough, I can’t wait to hear your story as you continue building strong and meaningful friendships!

